3 AM Insomnia: Why You’re Awake and How to Get Back to Sleep
The '3 AM Wide Awake' Club is a hallmark of the perimenopause transition. We explain the neurochemical cause and how to fix it.
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Waking at 3 AM is frequently tied to the drop in progesterone. Progesterone's metabolite, allopregnanolone, is a natural 'valium' for the brain. When it's low, your brain snaps into 'high alert' at the slightest provocation—even a simple blood sugar dip.
The 'Tired but Wired' State
You feel exhausted, yet your mind is racing with lists and worries. This is the biological result of low GABA support. You are trying to sleep with a brain that has its 'emergency alert' system turned on.
Your Sleep Rescue
- Keep a notebook by the bed to 'dump' your 3 AM list.
- Try Magnesium Glycinate 30 minutes before bed.
- Avoid alcohol, which specifically triggers 3 AM wakeups.
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